People Never Change

People never change. I know that’s a pretty broad statement, and you may find some flaws or you may be able to prove that it’s not true. 

Look at it this way… If you get into a car accident and it’s not clear who’s at fault. The person that you were in a car accident with comes over screaming and swearing at you. Would you expect your reaction to be belligerent and stubborn? If he said it was your fault, would you immediately become defensive and say it wasn’t? Even if his explanation of why your at fault made sense? Unless you’re a very patient and calm person, chances are you would become belligerent and not admit any fault.

Given the same scenario, the person comes over and genuinely asks if you’re ok and ensures you not to worry, everything will be ok. Would you likely respond belligerently? Chances are it would be easy for you to say you wouldn’t respond belligerently.